HERE YE HERE YE: NEWS FLASH THE PSYCHO EX WIFE WITH BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER IS NOT GOING AWAY.
The following information can help you learn to deal with someone with this problem, otherwise she WILL continue to wreck havoc and hell on and in your lives We
have all heard that you when you marry someone who has been married before we take them "as is" baggage & all. I'll net many of
you did not have a clue what you were getting into. There is a book "stop walking on eggshells" that finally made my husband & I understand why his ex (of ten years) continued to cause so many problems for us.
The most important thing I took away from the book was this " people with BPD, are pretty much normal. They are just like you & me. They just feel things much more intensely than we do. It is normally an ex wife, or sometimes a mom. They have trouble letting go, they must be in control of the situation, so when a man divorces and moves on, god forbid remarries, this woman with BPD feels rejected. we have all felt a sense of loss or rejection, but to someone with BPS, it is magnified like 2000 times, it hurts so deeply and they will do anything to get back at you. They want so desperately to be a part of the ex's life again that after the seduction does nt work, the tantrums do notwork, they often use the kids as pawns, they make false police reports, claim to have been robbed, abused, raped, they
go to the ex's boss, family, friends anyone. They try to make allies of the ex's own family and friends so that they will be believed. They are so good and cunning and believable that if you do not protect yourself early on you could be in for the legal battle of your life.
For more information please read: MORE ABOUT ME: The psycho ex wife is a true account of marriage, divorce and subsequent custody battle between a loving man and his terrorist ex-wife who suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder, and th husband's new partner. Read on to see if you recognize any or all of the 9 tell-tell signs of BPD, learn how to defend yourself, your new spouse, how to limit contact so the BPD does not take control and ruin your life, do not let her alienate you form your child. Folks this is real, it is scary.
I am living through it now. This sick woman had my husband, a lawyer and pillar of the community arrested (of course charges were never even brought) but the humiliation he and his kids went through/ Please read and learn to protect yourself
http://www.thepsychoexwife.com/borderline-personality-disorder/